Blue's first appearance!

ok, so i didn't post a CONGRATS to Bey n Jay (my all time fave couple) because i know ppl were tired of hearing about Blue Ivy but I am sooo excited! Don't ask me why but I just am Lol

BUT i had to post the new track, Glory, Jay made feat. his princess Blue Ivy Carter (she's going to be paid already)!! it's so cuuute and he is such a proud papa already and i love seeing MEN being men and doing what they are supposed to for their kids and actually ENJOYING it :-))



I have a feeling Jay's style of music will be changing from this day forward, for even better! So Congrats to the Carters!!

"you don't yet know what swag is but you was made in Paris"

Cake...Cake...Cake...Cake.....

I LOVE this song...well it's not even a full song but it gets me going!



"it's not even my birthday...but he wanna lick the icing awff"

Separated is STILL Married....

Hey Everybodyyyy!!!

I know this post is way left field but fxck it! lol With the divorce rate at an all time high...i just want to clarify that if a man or woman says they are separated they are STILL MARRIED!! I've always told myself that I could never sleep with let alone "date" a married man. For one, that is disobedient to God and I wouldn't want that Karma coming back around on me. Also, a man will never leave his wife for his mistress. I'm way to selfish to take a married guy serious anyway! Can't call after a certain time, can't give me what I want WHEN I WANT IT and just the thought of him tending to someone else's needs would tear my nerves to pieces.

But what about those who are "separated"??? I've always wondered the same thing, if they separated legally or not does that give one the pass to pursue a relationship or fxckship? I've always thought the answer was NO but wasn't sure but now I realize the answer is NO...DONT DO IT...RECONSIDER! A separation is a time for the couple to try to iron out issues before pursuing a legal divorce and if a 3rd party comes into play it makes the chances of the couple getting back together even harder. When couple get divorced it's not about just them two, it can seriously affect the children involved and also break up that family bond that molds strong and confident kids. A lot of times we don't look at the bigger effects of our actions but a marriage and separation should be left for the couple to deal with. Even if one person says they aren't living together or they know it's over...wait for the divorce to be complete. There is always a chance they get back together then you are stuck on stupid and all they are going to say is..."Well You Knew the Situation up Front" which is True!

Just put yourself in other people's shoes...most of the time we get one side of the story and of course that side will be the side that tries to make you comfortable with playing around with a married individual. But I'm sure if you heard the other side it will be something totally different. That other person may be at home crying, hoping and praying every night that things will work out...while you're out living it up with THEIR husband/wife.

Every decision reaps a consequence...

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Morning thinking...wondering why people lie, front and compete??! Then wonder why things arent working in their favor, its ok to just do you and keep your mouth shut! People speak to soon instead of letting their actions speak for themselves.

I'll stop there.

Have a great one!

- Checking in from my iPhone...I love everyone's feedback!

FEED...MEEEE!

This picture represents exactly how i feel right now!!! OMG...I'm starving! Recently, I've developed gestational diabetes due to the me and my Bam Bam's hormones not working well together. And this is my first day on my new "diet" that the gestational diabetes counselor gave us and I feel like I haven't eaten in days! I've been trying to stick to the script and i think i've done well compared to how I usually eat, which isn't too bad, but definitely more than what I can eat now!

You never realize the luxuries you have until they are gone! Everything has to be measured out, to almost nothing but you get more meals a day. And I have to test my blood after breakfast, lunch and dinner as well as when I first wake up. I did great on the morning tests buuuuut after lunch WOWZERS! I'm sure that came from the chocolate and almond granola bars I picked up. I don't even eat granola bars but I had to find ANYthing to snack on. Hell, they are high in fiber which is good but I don't think I'll be able to continue eating them. As I type, my stomach is eating through my back right now and I have a terrible headache and I just ate my afternoon "snack" grapes, milk and 5 pretzels! yes, 17 grapes, 5 pretzels and 1 cup of milk!

I'm going to try my hardest to do better, I didn't do terrible but I can do better especially since I have to write down all my numbers as well as what I eat all day for each meal. I would hate for Jenny (counselor) to make the diet even more strict. COME ON FEBRUARY!! Now I have more sympathy for those who have diabetes to deal with on a day to day basis...this thing is HARD!

Pray for a sista! *scrolls back up to drool over the burger in the pic*

WishList: ZUMBA!

Just thought I'd share that I want this game for Christmas!! I always hear good things about Zumba and I love a good fun work out so I want to give this one a try.

Don't everybody jump at once :-)

Most Kings....Get Ready!

I've been on my Jay Z tip today! I love this track! I put up his explanation of this song a while ago but the lyrics are so true! So if you are on your road to success, here is the blueprint of what may happen along the way. But if you know ahead of time you are prepared to not get consumed..



Mosssst Kiiiingggggssss....get their headssss cut oooooffffffff *bobs head* LOL!

LookBook: I LOVE this

I first saw Usher in his new video with the handkerchief in the pocket of a nice jean jacket and I love it! I found another image that I thought was dope too...#niiiiccceeeee

We Found Love...

I love this new Rihanna song & video! It can be interpreted in many different ways...my interpretation from the title and the video is that they fell in love doing "hopeless" things, meaning partying, using drugs and endless wild sex! None of those things are bad, besides the drug part (weed is an exception lol) but if there is no true foundation of a relationship, basing it off those things alone will make for a bad ending. After all the fun is over, what is left?? There is no substance...



It seems like she was trying to give us a view into her and Chris Brown's relationship...just my opinion. From the guy in the video who resembles Chris Brown with the blonde hair, the parties and the discreet depiction of domestic violence.

Tell me what you think....