Bow to your Queen!

"Queen's Men bow down without losing their King status" ~ dope chick

I came across this picture of my favorite couple...besides Barack and Chellie...and I had to post!!  I love a man is not afraid to bow down to his woman because he respects her, wants to please her, let's her be the woman BUT remains KING!  Some men are so caught up in their egos and they want to prove to people who could care less, that they are "running things" when the real ones who are really running it are not afraid for their woman to get their shine on.  Being a King is knowing how to silently lead...no one needs to hear what a king does...he just IS.  His woman is always right beside him and backing him up but he also knows when to let his Queen take control.  The key to successful relationships is playing your position correctly.  Let your man be a man and men let your woman be a woman.  Controlling her does not show you are "the man"....it's actually the total opposite.  I definitely love my King and he is not intimidated by my Queen status!  We stay in our lanes and never let anyone shake the castle.

The Carters just gave me some end of the day inspiration....

....catch up ni99az

Girl Crush Alert!! #VMAs

I LOVE RIHANNA!  She looked amazing last night!  I love her with black hair and when it's short and that dress was EVERRRRRYTHANG!!  She gave me a tingly feeling last night LOL! #dontjudgeme  But seriously she is such a pretty girl...After following her on instagram she is one of my fave people!  She just does her regardless of how people look at her but how she put herself out there yesterday you would never know she probably smoked 3 blunts on her way to the show!  People criticize her choices but hey, she is still handling her business obviously and she isn't harming anyone else so I say LIVE YOUR LIFE!! *cues music*  Here are a couple pictures of my girlfriend on the red carpet!  And I enjoyed her opening performances....looks like they got my girl some dance lessons because I thought she was a terrible dancer when she first came out!  She still is no Beyonce' but she's trying :-))

Last night, a lot of celebs gave the middle finger to the "no white after labor day" rule and I don't blame them.  If you want to wear white in the dead of winter go for it!  Rhi Rhi's dress was simply chic and the little bows tied on her shoulders were too cute!  And Katy Perry looked great as well, I guess her and Rhi Rhi are hanging now.  Katy is one of my favorite pop artists....

Overall the awards were ok and Kevin Hart is a fool!  I looooved Lil Wayne and 2 Chainz performance, I'm sure I broke out in a sweat dancing in front of the tv as if I was on stage with them.  Hey gotta get that workout in somehow.

Amber Rose looked gorgeous with her baby bump!  I'm happy for her and Wiz Khalifa, grant it we never know how people's relationships are but from what I see they seem to be genuinely happy and in love with one another.  I think they make the perfect odd couple!  They both push the  boundaries with fashion, stick to no trends and could care less what others think about them.  
       
                               

Project Runway Here I Come....

Hmmm Maybe not!  lol  But I just wanted to share my sweatshirt that I created!  I'm so excited, I've been working on my budget and trying to use what I have to create different outfits or just making the old into new!  I've began "thrifting" and I found a good amount of things and only spent $25!!  One of my finds was this $3 hoodie in the men's department and I shredded and studded it up!

This took all of 20 minutes!  I cut the neck off the sweatshirt, then cut the slits down the back!  I also added about 7 studs/spikes to the ends of the slits but they are hard to see in this picture.  I also added a piece of denim and tied it around the last slit...I have a few other things I want to add to it but I'm excited!

I hope you like!  Youtube is my new best friend :-)))

Fasting...once again!

Once again, i have lost focus so I will be taking another fast from FB and a partial fast from Instagram!  Twitter isn't that bad...I rarely get on there.  I got a lot accomplished during my last fast so we'll see what I can get done this go round.

We all need to constantly regroup and get our focus back!  I need to just fast from my dag on cell phone!  That thing is detrimental to a sista's health! LOL!

I just saw this quote at the bottom of an email that was sent to me this morning!!  This is soooooooo true and I read it about 5 times because each portion of the quote has pertained to me over the past couple months so I have to keep pushing instead of giving in:

"Life ends; when you stop Dreaming, Hope ends; when you stop Believing, Love ends; when you stop Caring, And Friendship ends; when you stop Sharing"


Have a good weekend!!!

Honesty Hour

My head is cloudy....my nose is stuffy just need some type of pill to take the pain away

Pain of not knowing...Pain of confusion...Pain of fear....Pain of change

One day I have it figured all out then the next day I'm back to negative square one

The saying goes when you don't have a answer stand still and wait for God to show...

But what if you've been standing still for 8 years???  Is there a limit on when to stay and when to go??

My mind is racing 1000 miles a minute but can't make one single decision to push me to the limit

You pray and pray and pray and pray....just to do the same things each and every day

Exploring all avenues but none seem to generate revenue...
It's never about the money but bills gotta get paid honey!

Wanting to do what I love but what that is...I have no clue

Focusing in...but i always give in

Efforts always seem to go unnoticed.

Wish I could see that smiling face instead i'm trapped in the rat race

Wishing we could be paid to see the world...there has to be a way

Distance and life drain the spice...being real tight would be so nice

Longing for something I can't seem to find but feeling so blessed there should be no stress

Reminding myself I'm already equipped 
If only there were a life instruction manual

This is the most random set of words I've ever put together, some rhyme and some don't just thoughts amongst the brain.  Honesty Hour was inspired by Alex Elle...

GO GABBY & CHELLIE!

Here's the video from Gabby Douglas & Michelle Obama on the tonight show!!  I'm sooo happy for Gabby, her story was amazing and she was amazing at the Olympics setting records with her gold medal obtaining performances!  And for everyone who has something to say about her hair....with her $90 million endorsement deals she can have a hair stylist with her EVERYDAY!  Like a picture on Instagram said, while you getting gold streaks in your hair, i'm out hear winning gold pedals! #straightlikedatttt  And Chellie is the bomb of course!!  So down to earth and flyyyy!

ENJOY....

The Things We Don't See....

I took this beautiful photo as we were descending down to get back home from Atlanta.  I love clouds!  They let me know there is a God!  Not that I don't believe that but whenever I'm around natural things it is a clear sign that God is always around us. 

When we were flying through the clouds the sun was shining so bright, the sky was crystal clear and everything was perfect!  As we began to get closer to the ground, that's when we were able to tell there was a overcast in Baltimore and it was so weird because right above it there was the closest thing to perfect!  That was just inspiration to believe in the things the are not seen...FAITH!  Sometimes we can't see our clear sky or sunny day but BELIEVE that it is there.  What we see is not always our reality...

Don't let the bad days ruin the good ones...there will be a change for the better, it's only natural :-))

Crazy Laaady lol

Things you do when you are delirious and need to go to bed!  Had a little fun with my wonderful iphone and frametastic app!  I actually took all but the last photo back to back lol

Sometimes in life we can take things too seriously so free yourself from others opinions, make silly faces, eat lots of cupcakes and laugh as much as possible even if it's by yourself with yourself!  I know I do it all the time :-))

Let's Go!!

This is my new fave song and video!!  It reminds me of Chris Brown's Beautiful People!  I've seen the video a couple times but never really payed close attention to the words or the video itself.  But I just watched it and I started silent clapping lol at my desk when I saw my girl LaTonya who won Born To Dance!!!  She is from DC and she worked soooo hard during that competition, I am very happy for her.



This is a great motivational song and a push to get moving on whatever it is you are trying to do!  There is no time to waste, sometimes we have to drag ourselves out the bed but the goal is to GOOO!

"...it's not about what you've done, it's about what you're doinnnnng" ~ Ne-Yo